Drama

Drama is never a good thing. It gets you into trouble with the ones u care about most about. I have been in drama problems and trust me, it sucks. If you are stuck in drama problems, walk away and never turn back. Drama leads to heartbreak and other very sad and painful things. NEVER, EVER, stay with a person who causes drama because, mostly, they end up hurting you and making you chose between that person and your friends. Drama in high school and middle school is very common. There is not one person who does not cause drama at one point or another because, no matter what, there is, somehow, always drama. I have lived in 3 states now. I have lived in West Virginia, Georgia, and South Dakota. Since I moved from GA, I haven't had very much contact with the mother of all troubles in a relationship. Are you wondering how to fix all the stuff that goes down? Well, there are 3 simple steps. Those steps are:
1. Find the source of the drama
2. Talk to the source...calmly
3. Live life all over again
See drama has ruined most people's high school years becasue they always feel hurt and inferior to the popular kids and some even feel lower than the nerds or geeks. That ain't a place one person wants to be. DRAMA KILLS!!!! SO STOP AND THINK BECAUSE IT COULD HAPPEN TO YOU!!!! Until next time this is swimmer_dude_1994

If you love somebody and your dating them, and you also like another person, don't break-up with them. If you do you ruin everything for that person. This has happened to me on Tuesday(11/02/10). This girl was everything to me, and she still is. If you love somebody and like another person, you are wondering, who do I choose? Well choose the person who you love because the two of you have been through alot and you don't want to forget about anything. Trust me it works. I did everything to get my girl back. Eventually, I did. I talked to her and told her how I really felt about her and told her about all of the time we had together. If you are in this position, then read this over and over again. If this doesn't work, then don't give up. Defend for your love for that person. Well until next time this is swimmer_dude_1994.

Break up and get togethers

Everybody has had break-ups before, right. Everybody has also gotten together with someone. Break-ups are hard for people who have had a long relationship with someone they love. If you want to get together with somebody you need to comment them on what they are like and be a gentleman or a lady and be polite. Guys here is one thing you need to do to a lady, Help them out, be polite and don't ever seem rude. These things will help you to get the perfect boy/girl. Now I have had tons of break-ups and atone of get togethers. If there is one thing that I have learned it is that nobody is perfect and people make mistakes all the time. Break-ups are tough but there is a get together. Get togethers are amazing because they help us understand the meaning of liking or loving somebody. Break-ups are the complete opposite. THey don't help us understand anything. Well this has been swimmer_dude_1994. See ya!

Rumors

Everybody either hears or tells rumors, but why do we have them? do we have them to make a person feel bad or to make fun of a person that you dislike? What do we do if we hear a rumor about our self? we try our best to find the source of the rumor and fix it. We don't just leave it be for it to get worse, we just fix it like humans not animals. In my opinion we have rumors because we like making people feel bad about themselves. This leads to suicide or murder. I think we have rumors to get a laugh about somebody you hate or dislike strongly. I have encountered rumors in my lifetime about me and my friends. I have told rumors and I regret doing it because I really hurt that persons feeling that day. I hate hurting people, all of my friends know this. there are times that I do hurt somebody by saying rumors about them. Now a rumor I have heard about myself is that I have dated more than one girl at a time. I know to some guys this is good, but not me, I would never cheat on my girlfriend. if I did she would kill me and that would be rude to do to someone you love. My friends have heard rumors about me. They have heard that I am gay. They all know good and well that I am not GAY because they have seen me with all of my relationships and not a single one has been a guy, they have all been a girl. What bothers me the most is when everybody has heard the rumor and it gets to you and you just freak out because it is not true but everybody doesn't believe you. Like I said before rumors are something that people have to entertain them. I personally think that people need to change otherwise they are going to get hurt one day because they told so many rumors. Until my next blog, break ups and get togethers, this has been swimmer_dude_1994. See ya'll later.

Relationships

Relationships between people hardly ever last when your young. Trust me I know because I have been in a lot of them in my life time. If you are in a relationship and you say you love somebody and they say they love you, make sure they do other wise your heart is going to get broken because they use you or or they don't really love you. This has happened to me lots of times. If you have a reputation and everybody knows that you do, try your best to get rid of it. If you don't then nobody will want to date you, if you get dumped like I have many times before and you have a reputation of dating more than one person, GET RID OF It ASAP! or you will never have anybody to love again in your entire life. Unless you move or something then you will never have another relationship with anybody. This happened to me on Friday(October 30,2009). It happened while I was a football game and I was working in the concession stands for second half, I was all happy until my girlfriend passed to concession stand, I said "hey" and she gave me a mean look like I did something wrong. When the game ended, She came to the door and she wanted to talk. I said "i have to help clean up, I'm listening though." She told me that it was over. I asked why and she didn't answer. I asked my friend what happened and he said that she heard a rumor that I was dating a different girl. I tried to tell her, but she wouldn't talk to me. I asked my friend to call her and try to fix the relationship since she wouldn't talk to me. He called and she still said "NO!" I finally get her to pick the phone up and ask if I can have another chance because I said I have changed over the weekend. Even though I did nothing wrong. She said prove it at the next Friday game(November 6,2009). She is giving me a second chance to prove that I have changed my life. I'm happy again. Now, take my advice(only if you need it)NEVER BELIEVE RUMORS!!!! If you do then you are just messed up in the head. Well until my next blog,rumors, this has been swimmer_dude_1994.

The Beast within myself

The beast I have put up with for 18 years now is my temper. This has hurt people I care about like family, friends, and me. My beast is something you don't want to deal with at anytime because when my beast is out it takes a lot to get it back in. People have tried to tame my beast but they aren't successful. My beast comes out if somebody forces it out by hurting my feelings, saying something to offend my family and myself, or hurting another person.
My beast has hurt many many people like my family. This has affected them because when they ask me to do something and I'm in a bad mood, my beast is out and I don't feel like doing what they ask me to do because of it. My parents are responsible because they ask me to do chores my brother never does and somehow I end up doing it for him. My siblings are constantly asking me to take them to the pool or on a walk to the creek and it gets on my nerves. If they get on my nerves then my beast is out. I hate when my beast is out at home because it gets my in SO much trouble. I don't like to be in trouble because it is never fun if it happens more than once then I'm grounded. Everybody hates to be grounded.

Another group of people that my beast has hurt is my group of friends. My friends are important to me because they help me through just about everything that is on my mind. My beast affects them because if I get in trouble at home because of my beast then I take away time to hangout with them and they don't want to hangout with my anymore because I am in trouble. My friends care so much about me that they mostly try to tame my beast because they want to hangout with me. When they don't want to hangout with me then that means I'm very sad and people don't like to see me sad. This is something I struggle with everyday in my life.

The last group of people my beast affects is myself. Yes my beast does indeed affect me in many ways. My beast affects me by affecting my views on certain people I hold dearly to my heart. I have so many problems with taming my beast. It cannot be tamed in any shape, size, or form possible. My beast affects my health, head, and other things that I can't name.

As you can see my beast is indeed my temper and it can't be tamed in any way possible. My beast affects my family, friends, and myself even and i don't like the negative impact it has on my life at all. My beast has come out a lot in the last couple of weeks because of the reasons that I explained in the previous paragraphs. I hat e my beast and I want it to go away. I regret everything that my beast has caused me to do over the years. Sometimes my beast led me to tears because of what I said to a person I cared a lot about. My beast is evil and it makes me do evil things.